Bumble has officially dropped its signature women-first messaging rule, allowing men to start conversations as the dating app prepares for an even bigger overhaul.
Since launching in 2014, Bumble has been known for requiring women to send the first message in heterosexual matches. The company began loosening that restriction with Opening Moves in 2024, which let men respond to prompts chosen by women.
Now, Bumble says anyone can send the opening message after matching, regardless of gender.
Both users have 72 hours to send an opener. If one messages first, the other receives another 72 hours to reply before the match expires. Opening Moves have also been removed.
Bumble will flag basic greetings such as “hi” or “hey” and encourage users to write something more personal, though it will not stop them from sending the message.
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According to Mashable, Bumble found that 66% of surveyed women preferred men to initiate conversations. Another 62% of men and women said having a choice over how chats begin made them feel more confident.
Trials of the new system reportedly produced a more even split between men and women starting conversations while also increasing chat activity.
“Today, our community is asking for more flexibility, less pressure, and more opportunities to create real, meaningful connections,” Bumble founder and CEO Whitney Wolfe Herd said.
The messaging change arrives as Bumble prepares to relaunch without swiping in select markets later in 2026.
Bumble is testing an AI matchmaker named Bee, which learns about a user’s interests, lifestyle, relationship goals, and communication style before recommending compatible partners. Another feature, Dates, is being developed to help matches turn conversations into real-life meetups.
The company is also working on chapter-based profiles that replace traditional bios with short sections about different parts of a user’s life.
Bumble is not alone in betting on AI to reshape online dating. Hinge founder Justin McLeod recently announced his own AI dating app, while one frustrated Tinder user went in the opposite direction and built a personal dating website featuring reviews from his mother.
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